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Thoughts On Crystal Warren.

It's not my fault I'm a sex addict: Woman reveals she has slept with more than 1,000 men

  • She had 40 lovers by the age of 17
  • Once had sex with 7 men in 24 hours

A 42-year-old woman has notched up more than 1,000 lovers, and had already chalked up 40 by the time she was just 17.

Crystal Warren, a retail manager from Brighton puts her sex addiction down to witnessing the painful breakdown of her parents marriage when she was five-years-old.

'People don’t usually associate sex addiction with women,' Crystal told the Daily Mirror. 'We’re normally the ones accused of making excuses before the lights go off but with me it’s different. I think about sex all day.'

Self-confessed sex addict Crystal Warren has slept with over 1,000 men

Self-confessed sex addict Crystal Warren has slept with over 1,000 men

At the weekend she says she often leaves the house in the middle of the day to find men at pubs or coffee shops to pick up and take home.

On a bad day she has admitted to having sex with seven different men in 24 hours, sometimes a few at a time.

With such a high number in just one day she confessed it was difficult to fit it all in, and would sleep with a man in the morning, one at lunch and then as many as possible in the evening.


Miss Warren lost her virginity when she was 15 and believes she became a sex addict almost instantaneously.

The feeling of being wanted by her first lover drove her on for more and more sexual experiences and shortly after her first time she was having sex with new man every other month.

By the time she was 17 she had slept with 40 people.

Addiction: Warren knows people call her 'easy', and assume she's a slut but they are unaware it's something she cannot control

Addiction: Warren knows people call her 'easy', and assume she's a slut but they are unaware it's something she cannot control

She didn't think it was a particularly high number for one so young as she assumed all the girls in her Somerset village were doing the same.

'I didn’t know 40 men was more than most women sleep with in a lifetime. All I knew was that I felt good about myself when I was having sex.'

When she was in her 20s she put her overwhelming desire to have more and more conquests down to simply having a high sex drive.

Looking back she says, she should have realised she was in the grip of an addiction.

Miss Warren claims she has always practices safe sex. She isn’t able to have children but ensures she doesn’t contract any STIs.

In line with other addictions MIss Warren says if she doesn't get what she wants she feels moody and frustrated.

Crystal Warren is unable to have children but always makes sure she practices safe sex to avoid STIs

Crystal Warren is unable to have children but always makes sure she practices safe sex to avoid STIs

'I’d begin to feel hungry for sex,' she says. 'I’d go on the prowl for men on my lunch breaks. If I didn’t manage to have sex I’d be unproductive all afternoon. If I go without for a few days I start to feel desperately low, depressed and lack energy.'

She says people assume she is a slut but she insists the addiction means it is out of her control.

When she was 35 she noticed all her friends had begun to settle down, so she decided to begin dating younger men. This had the added benefit as they had the energy to keep up with her huge sexual demands.

She has even joined a specialist online dating website which helps her find men who can keep up with her high sex drive.

It was only when she hit 40, and her best friend turned her back on her did she finally confront her addiction.

'I know I’m a sex addict, but I can’t face getting professional help. Sex is the only thing that makes me feel good about myself. I guess when the men start saying no, I’ll stop having sex. I know some people must think I’m a terrible person, but believe me I’m not proud of myself.'


From Mail Online
My thoughts.
Please read my article on the number issue and women.   Reading the article, my first thought went to Kegel exercises.  Don't know why.  Just Kegel.  Then I felt sorry for her.  Imagine living a life where you are just tied to a particular behavioral pattern - smoking, drinking, sex (ing).  It is a sad life to live.  It becomes worse when you live in a society where women who are this way are seen as being sluts or prostitutes.  You know if a guy confessed to this - he will be congratulated or people will be running around to get him some help.   

This sentence got me thinking, "Sex is the only thing that makes me feel good about myself.".  How?  Shows the power of thoughts.  To feel that your essence comes from a part of your body that you have complete control over.  Now, notice I am not lambasting this woman - she obviously has problems one that has to do with her view of who she is and how desirable she is.  Unfortunately, she has trained herself to believe that men want to be around her because of what she can give them.  This training started from her first sexual experience and escalated through the years.  Though her number can be considered high, she needs to first deal with herself  and then she can have sex for the right reason in which control is hers and not her body's. 

Basically, this isn't a sex issue but a 'thought pattern' issue. 

Last Updated ( Thursday, 02 February 2012 11:39 )

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